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To me it's no different than having a husband go golfing all the autobus. Dating add go for drinks and alternately act interested and completely aloof. They make it easier to walk having ADHD and therefore are a tremendous help but you still need to educate yourself and learn how to manage everything else you do differently without a leg as in my idea. Do you get off on witty banter. Honestly, I really never worried about it in the beginning, up to now. I asked the advice of everyone I knew. He is just different. And also realize that while relationships with large age differences can of idea be happy and successful, there is usually something wrong with a person who refuses to engage romantically with anyone in their peer group, and instead seeks out a relationship that will involve serious differences in experience and power. I could go on but it really was a different time.

Well I didn't know either. Mistake 4 — Hyperfocus, Hyperfocus, Hyperfocus, …. Like you, he is very passionate about his career.

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Having ADHD is hard but I know something harder. For me, this became almost an integral part of my personality and how people saw me. Great gal, horrible taste in men. I used to joke that if there was one unemployed, drug-addicted, criminally inclined asshat in a crowded room of wonderful, caring, loving men…. I read every self-help book there was about women who pick the wrong men. I asked the advice of everyone I knew. If there was a tactic, I tried it, a set of rules, I followed them, but the end result, with limited exceptions, was almost always the same. I would spend a year or two supporting an emotionally unavailable jackass who did nothing but make me feel bad about myself. And then came ADHD One of the most transformative things about my diagnosis was getting to re-write this part of my story. It dictated who I picked. It gave me a blindside a million miles wide. It was the reason I was willing to rationalize away almost every kind of bad behavior…. There are many things about having ADHD that make my life amazing and better than it would be without it, but when it came to relationships, it is my Achilles heel. I meet people and then I am in a relationship with them. There are only those two steps. This is a common problem amongst us ADHDers and the next 5 mistakes will help explain why. New love is incredibly interesting and produces a ton of dopamine and oxytocin. Unfortunately, this often means we go so fast that we end up making Mistake 2. I used to think I was just color-blind when it came to red-flags because I never saw them until it was too late for them to be useful. This is a step we often miss and when we do, we may find ourselves laying on the ground, with a banged up heart, wondering what the hell just happened. Mistake 4 — Hyperfocus, Hyperfocus, Hyperfocus, …. One of the hallmarks of my past relationships was that I never noticed all those red flags on the road to rock bottom… but once I got there, they were all I could see. This is an example of what can happen when we hyperfocus on the relationship in the early stages and put all our efforts towards making it work. Eventually, our attention shifts to other things which causes very real changes in the relationship. This kind of hyperfocusing is also why so many ADHD relationships are great, until right after the wedding. Mistake 5 — Acting Like Siamese Twins So, having a brain full of dopamine is pretty great and being in a new relationship is also pretty great and when you combine them it is very easy to want to make those great things happen ALL THE TIME! Unfortunately, the rest of your life like, your job, your friends, your family, your pets, and your plants might not be willing to sit back and wait for you to remember they exist and devote some time to them. You may not realize until the moment you need them the most that you lost them along the way Mistake 6 — Living in Magic Land In my life, magic land is the place where all magical thinking, like that I am someday going to win the lottery, happens. We ADHDers are really great at creating this kinds of places and we really like to spend a lot of time there. But when your head is in the clouds, it is difficult to stay grounded. But the very last thing you need when you have a brain bursting with dopamine and overrun with oxytocin is your feet leave the ground. We create this perfect version of who we are with this person. We create this perfect version of who the two of us are together. Magic land lays the foundation for the worst of these mistakes to have the harshest and most long-lasting repercussions. If any of these sound like you, take heart. But the first step is always being able to see where you are going wrong…. Rori Boyce is Living an ADD Life and helping others like her along the way. Learn more about Rori and what she does.